Safety Is Not Paranoia
Taking safety precautions when meeting new people is a normal and sensible practice — not a sign of distrust or paranoia. These habits protect you and create conditions where everyone can feel more at ease.
Before the First Meeting
Before meeting someone in person for the first time: do a quick online search of their name, video chat to confirm they match their profile photos, agree on a specific public location, and let a trusted friend know the details.
At the First Meeting
Choose a busy, public venue for the first meeting. Arrange your own transportation both ways. Keep your phone charged. Have a polite exit plan ready if you need it.
Alcohol and Safety
If you choose to drink on a first date, do so in moderation and never leave your drink unattended. Heavy alcohol consumption affects judgment. It is completely reasonable to choose not to drink.
Digital Safety
Avoid sharing your full name, home address, workplace or daily schedule until you have built a foundation of trust. Use privacy settings on social media to limit what strangers can see.